Grandparents love to shop for their grandchildren. There’s nothing wrong with purchasing strollers or cribs, dance shoes or soccer balls. However, the greatest gift that we can give our children can’t be purchased online or picked up at a big-box store. It won’t break, corrode, deteriorate, fray or rot. It costs nothing, except time and commitment on our part. The greatest gift is a legacy of faith.

There are three ways to pass a faith legacy: sharing our testimonies, giving the spoken blessings and praying daily. In this article, we will talk about what it means to share our testimony.

What is Our Testimony?

According to the first letter of John, “Whoever believes in the Son of God has the testimony within him” (I John 5:10). This testimony is Jesus within us. It includes our witness of God's love and the reality of the Gospel Message (Jesus' death, resurrection and ascension). It also includes our family heritage, salvation stories and faith journey.

Author Ken Canfield writes, “Everyone’s life is a story. Each of us has received incredible blessing and overcome daunting obstacles.”[1] It a story that has been written, edited and published by God. It’s a story meant to be shared with future generations.

Why Do We Share Our Testimony?

We share our testimonies for the following reasons:

• Scripture warns us not to hide our testimonies from our grandchildren but to “tell the coming generation the glorious deeds of the LORD, and His might and the wonders that He has done” (Psalm 78:4-8).
• If we don’t tell them our faith stories, they will become “a stubborn and rebellious generation” (Psalm 78:8).

(Can you imagine the impressive stories, which Joshua told his descendants? Stories about spying on the inhabitants of Canaan, watching the walls of Jericho fall and stepping from the desert into the Promised Land. Did you know that these stories were never passed down? After Joshua’s children “had been gathered to their ancestors, another generation grew up who knew neither the LORD nor what He had done for Israel. Then the Israelites did evil in the eyes of the LORD and served the Baals” (Judges 2:10-11).)

• We have a responsibility to present our grandchildren “mature in Christ” (Colossians 1:28) when we reach heaven’s gates.

Where Do We Share Our Testimony?

Let’s turn in our Bibles to the first chapter of Acts where we find our Risen Lord. giving instructions to His disciples. “You will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you, and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem and in all Judea and Samaria, to the ends of the earth” (Acts 1:9). These instructions weren’t intended only for the disciples; they are intended for us, as well.

Christ calls us to be witnesses in Jerusalem and in Judea and Samaria, to the ends of the earth. This includes New York City, Boise, Dallas, Havana, Cape Town, Mumbai, Cebu and wherever our families live.

Whether we are local or long-distance grandparents, estranged or charged with the responsibility of raising our grandchildren, God calls us to share our faith with the generations coming after us.

When Do We Share Our Testimony?

Are you familiar with Moses’ directive to talk about God’s commandments and decrees “when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up” (Deuteronomy 6:7)? There wasn’t anything special about these activities; they were part of the Israelites daily routine.

If Moses had been talking with grandparents living in the twenty-first century, he would have told us to talk about the LORD when we are sitting at the kitchen table, standing at a soccer match, driving down the road, talking via FaceTime, sending a text message or simply “doing life” with our grandchildren.

What Are Effective Ways to Share Our Testimonies?

Let's examine the four parts of our testimonies—Gospel Message, family heritage, salvation story and faith journey—separately.

Good News

The holidays provide the perfect time for us to teach our grandchildren about Jesus’ birth, death and resurrection. For example, we can use an inexpensive Nativity scene to encourage our grandchildren to  tell the Christmas story in their words. We also can plan a baby shower for Mary or a birthday party for Jesus, complete with a homemade cake.

“Resurrection eggs” are an excellent tool for teaching about Holy Week, Good Friday and Easter. While these plastic eggs can be purchased online, I recommend making homemade ones. (See below.) One of my family’s favorite Easter traditions is eating "Resurrection Rolls" as we talk about the significance of Christ's empty tomb. (See below).

Family Heritage

Everyone wants a connection or sense of belonging. Therefore, we need to share stories about our family heritage. Our grandchildren want to know about our parents and grandparents, childhood home, accidents and illnesses, education, experiences, livelihood and family’s faith traditions. They also want to know what it was like growing up without cell phones and computers, why we got married, what it was like being a parent to their mothers and fathers and why being a grandparent is so special. Anecdotal stories are a wonderful way to convey this information.

Salvation Story

Our grandchildren often catch us off-guard with their questions about God. They only give us a narrow window of opportunity to answer questions like, “Is Jesus real?” before darting to another topic.

In her book, Pass the Legacy, Cathy Jacobs recommends getting prepared now. She suggests considering the following questions and jotting down a one-paragraph answer for each:

• What was your life like before you came to know Christ?
• What happened to change your life?
• How is your life different now?

These three paragraphs form the “bare-bones” version of your salvation story.[2]

I suggest that you practice telling this story to another grandparent and listening as they practice theirs. (If you grew up in church and can't remember when you asked Jesus to be your Savior, you can talk about the moment He became real to you.)

Faith Journey

Our faith journey includes stories of answered prayer, lessons learned, Godly-coincidences and examples of God’s mighty hand working in our lives. To remember these stories, I recommend using the following steps to create a spiritual timeline:

• Draw a horizontal line across a blank sheet of paper.
• Place a dot on the far-left corner of the line and write “God knew me before He made the world.”
• Move one inch to the right of the first dot. Place another dot and write Birth, plus the date and year you were born.
• Placed a dot on the far-right corner and write “Eternity.”
• Proceed to fill in your spiritual timeline, placing a mark to represent times when you have experienced transitions and/or transformations. Be sure to include the date or year and place the marks relative in time to each other. Don’t forget to include things like your baptism, first job, wedding day, birth of your children and any moments closest to Christ.

How Do We Share Our Testimonies?

There are numerous ways to record and share these memories with your loved ones. Here are some suggestions that you may want to consider:

• Write a spiritual memoir for a specific period of your life. (There is a difference between an autobiography and a memoir. An autobiography includes everything on your spiritual timeline, whereas a memoir only includes a portion of the timeline or specific event.)
• Keep a prayer journal. Include your requests, the answers you receive and dates for each.
• Create “Ebenezers” by gathering stones, shells or other collectable items, which you can write on with marker. For every answered prayer or wondrous work of God, write a word or Scripture verse, which will remind you of this specific event, on one of the stones. Showcase your Ebenezers in a glass vase and use them to share your faith stories with your grandchildren.
• Create a Blessings Jar filled with thank-you notes to God.

One Last Thought:

We need to share our testimonies with respect and sensitivity. Therefore, we need to be aware of our grandchildren’s physical, emotional and spiritual maturity.

Last but not least, we need to share our stories with Holy Spirit boldness. God doesn’t call us to be spiritual lawyers, responsible for proving that Jesus is Savior and Lord. He simply asks us to be witnesses by telling our God-story, and leaving the results to Him.

[1] Ken Canfield, The H.E.A.R.T. of Grandparenting (Siloam Springs, Arkansas: Dayspring), 174.

[2] Cathy Jacobs, Pass the Legacy (Nashville: Elm Hill, 2018), 133-134.

Directions for Resurrection Eggs:

Directions:   Number plastic eggs 1-12. Add the following objects to each egg.

• Egg #1: Oyster cracker (or bread) – Matthew 26:26
• Egg #2: Silver coins – Matthew 26:14-16
• Egg #3: Purple cloth – Matthew 27:28
• Egg #4: Thorns – Matthew 27:29
• Egg #5: Rope – Mark 15:15
• Egg #6: Cross – John 19:16-17
• Egg #7: Nail – John 19:18
• Egg #8: Sign that says, “This is the king of the Jews.” – Luke 23:38
• Egg #9: Sponge (with vinegar) – Matthew 27:48
• Egg #10: Cloves or spices – Luke 23:5-6
• Egg #11: Rock – Matthew 27:59-60
• Egg #12: EMPTY! – Matthew 28:55-56

Recipe for Resurrection Rolls:

1. Allow a package of frozen or homemade yeast rolls to rise overnight (Holy Saturday).
2. Preheat the oven to 350 degrees the next morning (Easter).
3. Wrap each roll around one large marshmallow.
4. Dip the wrapped roll into melted butter
5. Roll in cinnamon and sugar, coating well.
6. Place on a greased cookie sheet.
7. Bake in the oven until the marshmallows have evaporated, and the rolls have browned.
8. When the rolls have cooled, give one to each of your grandchildren. Examine the hole left by the evaporated marshmallow, which represents the empty tomb. Talk about what Jesus’ death and resurrection means to us.

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You are the essence of forgiveness, all that is wholesome and good. Therefore, we come to You today, humbling ourselves and praying for our relationship with the “other grandparents.”

Help us to love them as You love us—with patience and kindness—unselfishly considering their needs before our own wants and desires. Help us to recognize our areas of brokenness where jealousies and short-sightedness pervade our attitudes. Stop us when we are critical and judgmental.

Show us how to set aside our differences, become peacemakers and engage in healthy relationships with our grandchildren's other grandparents. Let us do this for the good of our extended family. Most of all, let us do this to the glory of God!

In Your beautiful Name, we pray.

Amen.

© 2020, Sherry Schumann

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We thank You for our grandchildren and the opportunity to pray for their salvation. Our love for them is indescribable. Truly, they are our delight!

We pray you awaken them with the Truth of the Gospel message. Let them understand that You exchanged Your heavenly throne for a manger. Let them comprehend that You went to Calvary, willingly, where You suffered and died for our sin. Let them grasp the significance of the empty tomb from which You were raised on the third day.

Our greatest prayer is that our grandchildren receive Your free gift of grace and salvation. Let them repent of their sin and invite You into their lives as their Lord and Savior. Let them “walk in newness of life” (Romans 6:4), now and forevermore.

After all, we can’t imagine eternity without them.

We pray this prayer in Your Name,

Amen.

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Today, we pray about our grandchildren’s walk with You. Please plant their feet firmly on the path of life. “Direct (their) footsteps according to Your word; let no sin rule over (them)” (Psalm 119:133).

Let them walk with You as Noah did, blameless and with singleness of heart. Teach them your way, so they may walk in Your truth; unite their hearts to fear Your name. (Psalm 86:11, ESV, paraphrased).

And when they stumble, as we all do, please uphold them in the strength of Your saving grace.

We pray this in the name of Jesus, who, by the way of the cross, is the path.

Amen.

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We pray on behalf of our fellow grandparents, who live throughout the world. We realize that we are as different and diverse as the miles, which separate us.

We pray for the grandparents who grieve over the birth of a new grandchild, because its means there is another mouth to feed.

We pray for the grandparents who are watching their grandchildren grow up in refugee camps.

We pray for the grandparents who have lost grandchildren to AIDS, opioids or the sex slave trade.

We pray for the grandparents who wonder if their faith in Jesus will prove costly to their families.

We pray for the grandparents who live with a false sense of security, unaware of the spiritual battle occurring outside their door.

We pray You restore the hope and renew the strength of grandparents throughout the world. “Let them mount up with wings like eagles; let them run and not be weary; let them walk and not faint” (Isaiah 40:31).

In Jesus’ Name, we pray.

Amen.

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We pray for the strengthening of our grandchildren's faith. Let them believe that You are the Christ, the Savior of the world. Let them grow in faith each time they hear or read God's Word (Romans 10:17). Let them be of courage, as they dare to be different from their peers, walking "by faith and not by sight" (2 Corinthians 5:6-7). Let them exercise their faith, using their gifts to carry the Gospel message to others (Romans 12:6-8).

Let them join us in "the race that is set before us, looking to You, the founder and perfecter of our faith" (Hebrews 12:1-:2).

In Your Name, we pray.

Amen.

(Submitted by Sherry Schumann)

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Lord Jesus,

We realize that we are in a battle. The battle, however, isn’t “against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness” (Ephesians 6:12). Forgive us for the countless times that we’ve attempted to handle this battle alone.

Cover us in the mantle of your love. Cloak us in your armor. Secure it in place with the belt of your truth. Safeguard our hearts against the world’s depravity with the breastplate of your righteousness. Protect our minds from Satan’s lies with the helmet of your salvation. Shod our feet, so we stand firmly for your gospel of peace. 

In all circumstances, show us how to use your shield of faith to extinguish Satan's fiery darts. Show us how to disarm all forces of evil with your sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God (Ephesians 6:11-17).

Urge us to be persistent in prayer, so we pray "at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication” (Ephesians 6:18).

Most importantly, remind us with every breath we take that the victory has already been won by you!

In your Name, we pray.

Amen.

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Many grandparents face tremendous burdens and heartache. Some grandparents are denied the opportunity to mention Jesus’ name in the presence of their grandchildren, while other grandparents are denied a relationship with their grandchildren, altogether. Some watch helplessly from the sidelines as their grandchildren are raised in unsafe, unhealthy and dysfunctional environments. Others cringe while their grandchildren are coddled, pampered, enabled and revered by the adults around them. And a growing number of grandparents are making the ultimate sacrifice, raising their grandchildren on limited finances, resources and energy.

You are the Father of mercy and redemption, who promises, “Call upon me in the day of trouble; I will deliver you, and you shall glorify me” (Psalm 50:15).

Today, we stand in the gap, praying on behalf of those grandparents who carry heavy burdens. Comfort them “in their affliction, so they may be able to comfort those who have similar afflictions, with the comfort with which they are comforted” (2 Corinthians 1:3-4).

In Jesus’ Name, we pray.

Amen.

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We thank you in advance for the teachers, which You have chosen for our grandchildren; we are privileged to pray in their behalf.

We pray that you bless our grandchildren’s teachers with a fulfilling school year. Give them the ability to create a loving and nurturing environment where their students can flourish. Give them the ability to explain difficult concepts to children with different learning styles. Give them with the ability to take appropriate disciplinary action when needed. Give them hearts to recognize that every student is your “workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand” (Ephesians 2:10).

We pray that our grandchildren’s teachers abide in Christ and Christ in them, so that this school yields tremendous fruit not only for their students but for the teachers, themselves (John 15:5).

We pray in Jesus’ Name,

Amen.

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Dearest Lord Jesus,

We pray diligently that you awaken our grandchildren to your glorious gift of salvation.

Two thousand years ago, you removed your heavenly crown and stepped down from your throne. You exchanged your glory for flesh-and-blood and entered humanity. Your love carried you to the cross, where you suffered and died for the iniquity of us all. You were raised on the third day, victorious over sin and death.

Our grandchildren are precious, without a doubt. But, like us, they sin and “fall short of the glory of God” (Romans 3:23). They need to be washed in your blood. Let them repent of their sin and invite you into their lives as their Lord and Savior. Truth be told, we can’t imagine eternity without them.

We pray in your Name,

Amen.

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